THE RELATIONSHIP WORKSHOP – HOW TO REPAIR A BROKEN HEART & BE MORE OPEN TO LOVE
“Beautiful day indeed I am certainly bursting with love.” Is how one of the attendees described the Relationship Workshop with Marilyn Devonish.
We had a wonderful time at the Relationship Workshop that I ran on Saturday 7th February in the Private Screening Room at the gorgeous One Aldwych Hotel in London.
The delegates were treated to a day for all of the senses; Great discussion, food for thought, a heart opening movie, psychic insights, a beautiful environment, nurturing and healing, and delicious food, just like a good date should be!
Another attendee said:
“Thanks so much for the workshop yesterday. It really was great and I know a lot has shifted for me. Stuff that I did not know was even there. I feel at peace about it all. This has been coming on for a while but yesterday resulted in a leap forward. I know who I meet now will be someone who is right for me. So much of it is being in the right heart and head space for me.”
There were also gifts for our VIP Guests which I know they will have fun using for many years to come.
If you missed the live Relationship Workshop on 7th February, this 40 minute video filmed by the team at Big Fanta gives you a sneak peek into some of the things we covered during the day. You can also purchase access to the full 1-day workshop here.
The video featured with this Blog includes an introduction into:
- How to change and transmute negative feelings
- Key questions for you to explore about both life and relationships
- Harnessing the power of the ripple effect and what you emanate out into the world
- Exploring your relationship story
- A blast of remote Huna
- Re-writing your Relationship Script
- An overview of your Archetypal Journey and what it takes to hear ‘The Call’ and answer it and move beyond the challenges and uncertainty
- Looking at your Relationship Blueprint
- How to join those dots in your life and make sense of what has happened to you
- A practical OTH (Opening the Heart) Exercise
- How to put your intention out into the world, and so much more besides!
The day was very much about healing and opening up the heart energy, and below is a summary of some of the things that I did back then to repair mine after the devastation of several affairs.
My intention for the Day and for the resulting DVD is to enable you to look at old patterns and limiting beliefs, many of which may have been sat there in the background, unconsciously lurking in the shadows. This Workshop is about shining the light on, uncovering, and scrambling and releasing those old patterns and limitations.
My work in this field as a Coach and Therapist all started with a broken relationship 15 years ago when my partner and then fiance had an affair. The pain was so deep and the mental torture so constant and immense, that when I realised that it was possible to resolve that in a matter of days or even hours, I wanted to be able to do the same for other people, so I gave up my ACCA Accountancy studies to become a Hypnotherapist and NLP Trainer. The rest, as they say, is history!
That was back in October 2000. I then spent the following 6 or so years specialising in working and coaching around relationships. I started my writing career a columnist for Here’s Health Magazine and also had a relationship problem page. For 5 years after that I had a problem page with Spirit & Destiny Magazine where readers would write in every month and I would do my Agony Aunt bit. I then went on to be an Expert Contributor for Psychologies Magazine, and have spoken at Workshops and Events around the world on the subject. As I looked back over those first 11 years I realised that one of my first proper speaking gigs was for Durex, speaking on their Relationship Stage at the Vitality Show at Kensington Olympia in London.
My first ever product was a CD and Workbook entitled ‘Is He/She The One?’ (The mp3 download is available from my website, and if you were a VIP Guest at the Relationship Workshop I’ll be sending you a code where you can download it free of charge as a bonus gift).
So it has been a very interesting journey for me since those suicidal days of September 2000 and reluctantly rocking up to the NLP training room in October 2000, however I just knew, that having suffered years of pain and angst and then learning how to resolve that in just a matter of hours or even days, that it was something that I wanted to help other people with.
I did an interview today for a Soul Journey documentary that I am going to be featured in this year and the producer was asking if I have come to the end of my journey having overcome so many challenges in life, and whether I still had a mission to be fulfilled. As a PhotoReading™ Instructor and Trainer of Accelerated Learning I know that I am a lifelong learner. As he asked about my mission in life, I realised that at least part of it was showing people that:
(a) Life may have seemingly deep and dark tunnels.
(b) There is a light at the end of it.
(c) It is more than possible to come out the other side whole and healed.
I also make reference to Hollywood and Los Angeles in the video because I was invited to fly out and speak at the Hollywood’s Forgotten Heart Event organised by Sheila Mac however I had to decline the invitation as I was already hosting and speaking at my own event in London. Because Sheila still wanted to find a way to have me on the bill, we filmed my London talk so that it could be beamed over to Hollywood for the event. Oh man, I do so love modern technology! For information about the event that took place in Hollywood go to: www.hollywoodsforgotten.com
One of the big things that we explored at the Relationship Workshop in London was the Archetypal Journey, or what is now known as the Hero’s Journey. The Archetypal Journey plays out in so many of the things we do, and in so many of the big blockbuster movies that magnetically grab our attention and capture our imagination. One of the reasons that things like Star Wars and The Matrix and Dorothy and those red shoes resonates so deeply is because they follow that same Archetypal Journey as first described by Carl Jung and later modernised by Joseph Campbell.
It was one of the realisations that had a profound effect and impact on my life when I first came across the Archetypal Profiling work back in 2005. I was so impressed with how accurately it charted what was going on in my life and the journey that I had taken that I became an Archetypal Profile Facilitator so that I could assist others with more clearly understanding their life journey.
I have found that when you can clearly see where you are, it helps to lift the confusion and pressure because it gives you clarity and insight into what comes next and the profile energy that would assist you on the next stage of your journey.
As I took delegates through the Archetypal Journey there were ‘aha’s’ and nods and realisations throughout the entire room.
We also examined your Relationship Script and the unconscious stories that might be playing out there. One friend described their Relationship Script as a “Documentary . . . . . because it was like: “Watching paint dry!” Others resonated drama, comedy, or unrequited love.
Workshop attendees started to write and re-write their Relationship Script in the room and continued the afternoon exercise for home play.
In addition to going through the Archetypal Journey in more detail in the afternoon session, I also took the group through an Access Consciousness Process to start clearing old patterns, judgements, limitations, and beliefs, and a guided meditation to re-write their Relationship Blueprint.
The video segment above is a taster. You can get access to the full 1-Day Workshop here
The day also included a session from Clairvoyant Gina Batt about how to identify ‘the one’, and a session from HeartMath™ Facilitator Linda Campling about how to get more coherence and resonance with your heart energy, which is not only great for eliminating stress, it can also help with longevity and anti ageing!
We also did some Hawaiian Huna and cutting the old ties and connections. As one attendee upon returning home that evening: “It’s still running, along with a pretty strong image of my heart being an open lily and a lot of breathing into it.”
Whether you are there live or watching the recording at a later date, as I explained in this preview video clip, the Huna energy can continue to run. I’ve had people just listen to the Huna and Access Consciousness mp3 recordings on the free Resources page of my website and experience energetic shifts and changes even though they weren’t on any of the live calls.
As one attendee at the Relationship Workshop commented the next day: “I hardly slept last night….were you and Gina up to things?”
It’s pretty amazing stuff so if you want to be in the room with us from the comfort of your own home grab access to the DVD recording of the Relationship Workshop at the pre-launch price.
I know that in terms of healing there isn’t a ‘one size fits all’ however for some of you it can be doing just one of the things that I’ve briefly outlined here, for others it may be a combination that finally has this shift and change and transform for you.
In summary, in terms of getting over disappointment and heartbreak, healing your heart, and truly moving on I would say:
- Stop and be OK to feel what you are feeling.
- Once you have been through your grieving cycle, whatever that is for you, stop and make a decision to release and let go.
- Examine your old stories, scripts, beliefs, and paradigms and change or resolve those that no longer serve you.
- Clear out the old energy and negative emotions.
- Decide how you now want things to be instead and install thoughts and beliefs to support that.
The easiest way to find out, as I discovered all of those years ago was to take what I call the ‘Nike Approach’ and “Just Do It!” Start somewhere, take action, do something, get off the fence, take those first steps because as I share in the afternoon session with my ‘Joining the Dots’ Exercise, you just never know where those first, sometimes seemingly ‘leap of faith’ steps might lead . . . . . . . .
I do hope that you enjoy the morning session of this workshop and I look forward to seeing you in the full Screening Room if you would like to go into more detail about any of the processes that were briefly outlined here.
Marilyn Devonish
Founder TranceFormationsTM.com
To book an Archetypal Profile Analysis session go to: www.tranceformationsTM.com/archetypal
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