Breaking Up the Easy Way – It Only Took 6 Hours

From New Age Hocus-Pocus to Seamless TranceFormation™

This was one of those catalyst events for me.

Those full circle life changing aha moment realisation events.  Those events where you realise how far you’ve come and where it sinks in that you have been able to use your own past heartache trials and tribulations to help others.

It was Autumn 2004.  I had been doing Relationship Breakthrough Coaching Sessions for 4 years.  I found myself sitting across the sofa with a Journalist from The Metro Newspaper.  Things were not going well.

She is American and informs me there is nothing I can do or say in terms of Therapy that she hasn’t already seen or done before because they; the American’s were way ahead of us here in the UK.  The narrative went like this:

“We are way ahead of you.  There is nothing you can do or say that I haven’t seen before.  I’ve got the hat, the mug, the mouse mat and the tee shirt.”

At that point I stopped the interview and made what turned out to be a life and career changing decision and request.  I asked that we forget about the interview for now and do a Breakthrough Session instead and that I would answer any questions about the process once the Breakthrough Session was done. I then heard my mouth say:

“If you like the Breakthrough Session you can write about it.  If you don’t like it you can write about that too.”

Are Antidepressants the Answer?

I had used those words once before, some 2-3 years prior when I was fresh out of training, upon making a call to the Deputy Health Editor at Here’s Health Magazine. This article on: Are Antidepressants the Answer was the result, where the Journalist in question said of the Breakthrough Session:

“I look Marilyn’s 6-hour Breakthrough Session.  After a messy break-up last year, I sometimes found it hard to get up in the morning and get through the day.  I didn’t want to take drugs so I went to see Marilyn.  Afterwards I felt more positive about myself and more able to cope with the situation – and the effects have been long lasting.” 

Here's Health Magazine - Are Antidepressants the Answer?
Here’s Health Magazine – Are Antidepressants the Answer?

This time the stakes felt higher so the logical part of my brain was like: ‘Whoa.  What are you doing?????!!!!!!!!’  Nonetheless she took up my offer and agreed to put her tape recorder and notebook down and dived into client mode.

Surviving the Affair

I did my thing.  The thing I had figured out from my own very traumatic breakup in September 2000 where I found out my then partner and fiance was having another affair.  At this point I hadn’t truly mentally physically or emotionally recovered from the revelation of his first affair in 1998, I had just been living with and coping with the gaping emotional wounds to my psyche which were thinly veiled by nice clothes and a paper smile.  The year 2000 affair revelations tipped me over the edge and I found myself on the phone to the Samaritans ‘suicide hotline’ as I called it.

In January 2005 I had just moved into my new house.  I came down to find my voice mailbox full. I figured the telephone company hadn’t configured it correctly.  There also seemed to be lots of emails from people I didn’t know. Before I’d had a chance to investigate, my then partner called to ask if I’d seen the newspaper and that I ought to go out and grab a copy.  He also faxed one over.

The Metro Newspaper - Breaking Up the Easy Way
The Metro Newspaper – Breaking Up the Easy Way

From New Age Hocus-Pocus to Seamless TranceFormation™

My heart sank when I read the opening paragraph. It read:

“When I first read Therapist Marilyn Devonish’s guff on NLP, it sounded like New Age hocus-pocus. A bit hypnosis, a bit therapy, it’s described as a process by which a subconscious mind is rewired to draw it towards things and people that are good for it and away from those that aren’t.”

It wasn’t filling me with confidence given our previous conversation about hats and mouse mats however with my heart in my throat I read on.  It closed with the paragraph:

“I still don’t understand how the technique worked so quickly but it did – subtly, seamlessly and, best of all, with no conscious effort on my part.”

PHEW!!!

You can read the full article here: http://www.tranceformationstm.com/popup/metro.html

I cannot tell you the sense of relief I felt in that moment.

Even though the article landed on 5th January, a time where most of the country hadn’t yet gone back to work after the Christmas festivities, it turns out there was nothing wrong with my voicemail, it was just full of enquiries and people wanting to book a 1-day Breakthrough Session. Same with the emails.

One of the things that most surprised me about the article was the majority of clients that came as a result of that in the intervening 7 years were men.

If you prefer to work on your own, at the your own pace, and from home check out my Online Healing Heartbreak eCoaching Programme: https://marilyndevonish.kyvio.com/theheartbreakhealer

What Are They Good For?

These examples centred around where part of my Coaching and Therapy career started with healing relationships and heartbreak.  Over the years clients have also used Breakthrough Sessions for:

  • Getting unstuck
  • Resolving old negative emotions and limiting beliefs; a big one for me was I’m not good enough and the emotions of fear and guilt following an abused childhood
  • Fear of public speaking
  • Unleashing confidence and self-esteem
  • Resolving destructive behaviours that lead to addictions such as gambling, alcoholism, sex, and food

And so much more.  If you have questions drop me an email in confidence.

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Marilyn Devonish

The NeuroSuccess™ Coach

E-mail: marilyn@tranceformationsTM.com

Website:  http://www.tranceformationstm.com

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About Marilyn Devonish

Marilyn Devonish, The NeuroSuccess™ Coach, has been a Flexible Working Implementation Consultant since 2003, which means going into organisations to implement smart, remote, and flexible working policy and strategies, and manage the psychological implications of working from home and online.

She is also a Certified Life and Executive Coach, Certified PhotoReading™  Accelerated Leaning Instructor, Certified Trainer of NLP, Keynote Speaker, Off and Online Workshop Facilitator, Freelance Writer, and Certified Multi-Disciplinary Therapist including Soul Plan Reader, Future Life Progression Therapist, Certified Trainer of Timeline Therapy, and Practitioner of EFT, DNA Theta Healing, EmoTrance, Energetic NLP, Access Consciousness, Reiki, Archetypal Profiling, Soul Plan Core Issue Therapy, and Hawaiian Huna, having studied out in Hawaii with those from the original lineage.

A Personal Trainer for Your Brain, Marilyn blends aspects of neuroscience with personal development to make accelerated performance and mindset changes more easily accessible to all.

She spent 9 years working as a Relationship Coach, had a Relationship Column with Here’s Health Magazine, and a monthly Agony Aunt column with Spirit & Destiny Magazine for 6 years.

Marilyn is also the Founder of TranceFormations™, a Coaching, Training and Consultancy organisation committed to creating impactful and lasting rapid transformation and change.  Her journey into these disciplines started with being diagnosed with what they thought to be early onset Alzheimer’s in her 20s, and contemplating suicide in her 30s after a relationship breakup.

Having found a quick, easy, and lasting way to turn that diagnosis and things around 19 years ago, she has been working with both individuals and organisations since then to help accelerate their potential and performance.

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